Okay, first off I do believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone has their perception of what beauty really means. I have seen overweight, or unattractive women become married to some very good guys. Simply placed, beauty lies different with every guy. I just simply placed the fact that guys naturally attract physically before we attract emotionally.
There have been many gorgeous women that I have seen in my life, but there are only a couple that I would even think about going into a relationship with because some have some of the others have very stingy personalities. I tend to realize that women that aren't as attractive tend to be more secure about themselves and tend to have better personalities. Though this may be a hasty generalization, I have found that personality matters most in any relationship. I know it can be hard for some women to understand how guys can attract first physically prior to attracting emotionally.
I will always be sensitive towards a woman's emotions, because I believe that God holds a higher regard for them. With that said, I will never ever say that a woman is ever fat, ugly, skinny or not model type because again beauty IS in the eye of the beholder. It would be interesting to note that there many beautiful women that are also single.
I know that it can be hard for some people, especially women, to understand the perception coming from a man's point of view. As for the men in this world, I wish they would learn to man up and would learn to take initiative in the relationship. It is interesting to note that the work relationships are made by men with an 80/20 ratio. Meaning that men do 80% of the work; because we do the initiating, asking out, paying, buying the engagement ring; and popping the question. I guess the fact that men does most of the work gives the whole new meaning as to why their is a "gentle" in the word gentleman.
Lastly people, especially men, become shallow when they are going more for what is on top of the skin rather than what's under it. We have to remember that beauty is only skin deep, but we have to do what it takes look beyond what the media defines as true beauty. It is our job to define what beauty means. We have to do what is needed to do the best to stand out and do the best not to let anyone stand between us.
What gets me up in the morning.
Okay, yesterday I was asked what gets me up in the morning. Well, that's simple for me. I can be confident that there is a new day to be proactive without having to wait upon someone to direct my life's goals. I know in my heart that I will be married, because I have a long ways to go to make it in life and I have the belief that it will happen. I hope to take courage and take the responsibility towards the actions that I choose everyday. I believe in my abilities, and I believe that anything is possible if I am willing to place my faith in God. There is so much yet to live in life. I yearn to live for it.
In addition, I take comfort in what brings me joy especially with that of music and other things that gives me temporary pleasure. I take life simply that if it happens it happens, and if it doesn't it doesn't. I just learn to live with the reality and the fantasy that I can live life singly if needs be without the consent of what others may think of me. I just don't believe is some type of checklist that we have to check off; but rather the ability to enjoy in what we have as we work towards those things that we want to have in that of our lives. Life is simple, we shouldn't have to make it complicated!
Here is a music video to some up everything that I have discussed:
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